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October 29, 2007

Five "Quick Hits" on Public Speaking

The first century Roman historian Dionysius said this, "Let thy speech be better than silence, or be silent."  How are you improving your ability to communication publicly?  Here are five quick hits to help you take a close look at your communication effectiveness.

1. How to Get a Standing Ovation - Guy Kawasak

2. 6 Do's to Open Your Presentation - Bert Decker

3. Better Beginnings: How to Start a Presentation, Book or Article - Kathy Sierra

4. How to Give a Great Presentation - Keith Robinson

5. 10 Lessons from My Speaking Coach - Lee LeFever

October 26, 2007

Steve Harvey & Jesus, Wow!

October 21, 2007

Six Causes for Evangelistic Entropy

Entropy Entropy is the natural and irreversible tendency toward disorder in any system without an external source of energy (The Wordsmyth English Dictionary).  When we apply this principle to evangelism we need to embrace the fact that left to itself the energy for evangelism in the local church will naturally (and in some cases irreversibly) move towards disorder.  This is why every church needs an energy source to counter this natural drift from mission to maintenance.  What is that energy source? Leadership! Its through leaders who model evangelistic passion, though their prayers, priorities and plans.  Someone once said, "Leadership is focused energy bursts."  The older the church, the more energy is needed to overcome all the competing issues that cause evangelistic entropy.  Over the next few months we are going to take a close look at how to practically lead your church in overcome the entropy that can slowly kill a church's missional effectiveness.

Here are the first two of six causes for evangelistic entropy:

1. Burnout of the leader.

Evangelism is a spiritually intense activity. Pioneer church planters, those without a “running start” with a core group, are fully engaged in evangelistic activities out of the sheer need for survival.  The ability to network in the community and to engage it evangelically rests solely on their shoulders, and the burden of that responsibility is intense.  The constant load of rejection they encounter can lead to burnout. One of my church planters said, “If you really want to gain a little understanding on the condition of the church in America just drop yourself into a community not knowing a soul.  Every time I shared my vision with churched people they looked at me as though I was an alien from another planet.”  The face of that constant rejection can be very demoralizing.

Another factor that can lead to burnout is the lonely nature of the job, especially for those who come out of thriving ministries.  The shock of going to a community where nobody really cares that you are there can be debilitating.  I usually try to prepare pioneer church planters with a little pep talk like, “When you move into town you will need to push yourself to meet people because the only people who care that you are there will be me and Jesus!”   Now that is a overstatement. I am sure that there are many people who care that they are there.  The only problem is that none of them live in that town.  Leadership is a lonely job!  Many pastors feel like they are carrying the burden for their communities alone. Listening to people's myriad of complaints can lead to frustration and wondering if anyone cares about their neighbors.

The final factor that can lead to burnout is the intense care of new believers.  Converts come in all sizes and shapes, with all sorts of baggage.   They have messed-up marriages, damaged emotional lives, self-centered values, screwed-up finances and whacked-out priorities.  They have no knowledge of God, the Bible and the church.   Seeing them through these issues with proper follow-up and discipleship can be a very draining and frustrating experience.  I particularly remember one such time when I cried out to God.  It was eighteen months after we had started a new church.  I was working a couple of jobs.  We had grown from two families to about 40 families, of which about 80-90% were people who weren’t believers yet, had just trusted Christ, or had just started coming back to Christ.  I remember yelling at God saying, “If you don’t bring me any help in the next six months, I am going to quit!”  Did it mean that I didn’t love lost people? No!  It just revealed that I was burned out.  John Maxwell has said, “There’s no such thing as burnout.  It’s just people who are taking themselves too seriously.”  In principle I believe that.  But when you’re on the front lines and ministry is such a struggle, you seriously do need some tangible help.  The end of that story is that within two weeks, God provided two spiritually mature couples who partnered with us in establishing the church.

2. Imbalance of the Ministry Priorities.

Imbalance is another reason why leaders can abdicate their evangelistic responsibilities.  Although many church's mission statements say something about reaching unchurched people, the truth is that investing in churched people takes time.  A leader's time can get swallowed up just ministering to the already convinced.  Shepherding, counseling, discipling, training all take time not including leading and preparing for worship services. If leaders are not disciplined in networking and spending time with unchurched people they can end up growing a church for the churched instead of a leading the church to missionally engage its community.  We recommend that our pastors and church planters minimally tithe of their work week in networking and developing pre-Christian contacts. (See 3 X 5 Rule)  To adequately address evangelism entropy leaders are going to have to replace a negative imbalance with a positive imbalance in favor of evangelistic engagement and equipping the church missionally.  (Excerpt: Church Planting Landmines)

Next week I will conclude with the final four causes for evangelistic entropy.

October 12, 2007

Cool Idea for New Churches

A friend of mine sent me to a blog written by Devin Hudson, the pastor of Grace Point Church, a church his children attend in Las Vegas, NV.  Here is a great idea for celebrating those who serve in your church and connecting people with what they do during the week.  A great recruitment tool and community building idea!

October 10, 2007

How Can Denominations Thrive?

George Bullard provides more resouces on How Denominations Can Thrive in the 21st Century.  Thanks George.

Here are a few intriguing points:

  • They understand the old Christendom is fading, and a new Christendom is emerging that will come primarily from the two-thirds world, and directionally from the Southern Hemisphere.
  • They affirm emerging denominationalism to the extent they find ways to create new denominational forms
  • They are on a clear and compelling spiritual strategic journey that seeks to make a transformational difference in the world. The journey is so powerful that it gives them great reason to work through issues that seek to divide them.
  • They empower congregational multiplication movements that result in a number of new congregations each year equal to three percent or more of the number of congregations already affiliated with their denomination.
  • They help faithful, effective, and innovative congregations move to the next level of effectiveness in reaching their full kingdom potential.
  • They understand multiple funding streams will have to be developed and cultivated to pay for denominational resources and services. They realize it is not likely the offering plate dollars in their affiliated congregations will provide the financial resources needed for future denominational vitality.

October 08, 2007

The Soft Talker!

Soft_talker_picI thought I would end this section of evangelistic posts dealing with the pastor's role in raising the evangelistic temperature of your church. That involves MODELING.  Modeling with your passion, with your plans, in your relationships, and modeling through the telling of your spiritual conversation stories whether they are good or bad.

A couple of weeks ago I was on a flight and engaged in a spiritual conversation that should have been video taped. It was one for the ages!  Because I fly Southwest Airlines all the time I have learned how to get the only first class seats on the plane.  Those seats in the emergency exit row.  The only place I can work on my computer.  Well, this is always a great casual conversation starter, which inevitably leads to the question: What do you do for a living?

That morning I sat next to two salesmen on a business trip.  The one gentleman ask me what I did for a living. I gave him my usual answer: I hire pastors to start new churches. Which sparked a spiritual conversation.  As I was intently trying to listen for those key indicators for spiritual receptivity, I became tangled in a problem.  This gentleman was a soft talker!  Remember that Seinfeld episode when Kramer's girlfriend, who was a soft talker, convinced Jerry into wearing a puffy pirate shirt on the Today Show.  Jerry could not hear a word she was saying but just kept nodding in agreement.  Well, that is exactly what I was experiencing on this one hour flight!

I could only hear fragments of his sentences.   Even when I kept saying, "Pardon me" I couldn't hear what he was saying.  I started praying, "Lord, give me bionic ears!  At least one!" and "Lord, touch his vocal cords!"  So all I  could do was to pick up a phrase or two that I could understand... "religion"...
"Catholic"..."doing good"...etc. I just explained to him the difference between Christianity and religion not knowing if he wanted to hear it or not!  We got off the plan, exchanged our farewells and parted company.

About fifteen minutes later as I was walking through the airport, I thought to myself, "What if he was begging me to know more?"  "What if he was begging me to point him to Jesus?"   What if he was asking good questions and I was just giving my rote reply?" 

Wow! How many times have I done that even when I can HEAR what the person is saying?

Here is a great and convicting article on Active Listening, which in an evangelistic context is more than hearing words.

October 05, 2007

Atheist Visits Mega Churches

Jim Henderson, of Off The Map, likes hanging out with atheists. He buys them on Ebay and writes books with them (Jim and Casper Go to Church). He also likes hanging out with ordinary Christ-followers who want to learn to connect with their non-Christian friends in a way that will inspire them to want to follow Jesus.  This video is a very interesting of Jim & Matt Casper sharing their insights of attending a well known mega church.

October 01, 2007

Five "Quick Hits" on Denominationalism

Future_concept_pic_2Many ideas are flying around about the future of denominationalism.  We hear about post-denominationalism, trans-denominationalism and the shrinking impact of denominationalism.  This post offers several perspectives from a wide variety of presenters.

Here are five "quick hits" on the future of denominations from a wide perspective.

1. George Bullard's 20 Ways Denominations Can Thrive in the 21st Century.

2. LifeWay Survey takes a look at Denominational Loyalty.

3. Tim Greer weighs in on the issue of Post-Denominationalism. "The ever-increasing trend of denominational erosion continues. The post-modern generation (age 20-40), the group that is fleeing church at an alarming rate, is not a generation of "joiners." The trend is observable outside the walls of church, in "civic groups" like the Masons and other volunteer orgs, whose memberships are in catastrophic decline. Postmoderns are independent thinkers and they don't like conformity."

4. Don Carson & Tim Keller - What causes fragmentation in evangelicalism today? | m4v

5. Mark Driscoll's insights on Denominationalism.